Important! c . I feel very upset if someone is annoyed with me. My significant other’s emotions create problems. Make quizzes, send them viral. To ensure that we give you a version of Login now for a personalized quiz! I struggle with jealousy and often feel like I’m not a first priority to my significant other. I have witnessed my significant other being verbally and or physically abusive with the kids. This quiz uses different questions to suit your personal relationship status. My spouse wants more connection than I do. I have difficulty confronting my significant other. 21 We often get so caught up in whether we’ll ever find love, if we’ve had it and let it slip between our fingers, or if we have it right now and just don’t know it. Hell no! 19 . My significant other gets irate if someone doesn’t follow the rules. Dismiss. Would you like to create an account now? Growing up, my parents did not inquire about my feelings. It is a defensive adaptation to a lack of sufficient healthy emotional connection while you were growing up (maybe you experienced relationships that were intrusive or abusive as a child). My significant other has told me they would harm me and/or the kids if I left. Don’t worry, at the end of the quiz we’ll explain your results and provide you with some next steps to begin your healing journey. I am always waiting for time and attention from my significant other. I have been with an abusive significant other more than one time. Our childhood experiences shape what we expect from relationships, how we receive and express love, and they form the roots of how we respond to others in stressful interactions. I am focused on meeting the needs of my significant other. Growing up, I tried to protect one of my parents from a violent partner. I don't like love. This quiz will score you in each of the five Love Style categories, with a high score in any category signaling an injury that needs healing. I would like my significant other to be more independent. My significant other controls most everything about my life. I took a lot of abuse during my childhood but eventually, I fought back. For each statement, simply choose whether that statement generally reflects you. To complete your quiz, you’ll need to login or create an account. I love being held, touched or stroked when I need comfort or reassurance. I’m afraid to disagree when I know it will upset someone. This test is meant to help you discover your primary love style (also called an “attachment style”). Crying kids really annoy me and if they were my kids it would stop. I have pushed, shoved or hit my significant other in anger. Your ultimate goal is to heal your love style(s) to become a secure connector. All the best, as you give it a try! Things would go better if my significant other would just do what I want. Looking back, I think my childhood was fine. I feel under-appreciated by my significant other considering how much I give. Yes. I put up with my significant other humiliating me. There is nothing scarier than living all alone till your human life comes to an end. My significant other has hit, shoved or pushed me and/ or threatened to do these things. This quiz requires a modern browser such as Chrome, Firefox or Edge. Your love style is activated in any relationship but it goes into full bloom around those to whom you are most closely connected. It bothers me when my significant other chooses to spend time doing activities that don’t include me. The result of all these attachment experiences are actually very predictable because people tend to fall into one of five special categories: called “Love Styles”, or attachment styles.